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4 Simple Steps To Stop Dating Anxiety

Dating Anxiety Solutions

Do not let fear and anxiety stop you from dating. Some people get really nervous when they go out on a first or second date. As a result, here are some techniques a person can use to help overcome the anxiety of dating:

1) Remember that dating someone does not mean you have to marry the person. Dating should be enjoyable and a good way to meet different people. When going out on a date, remind yourself that you do not have to commit to a long-term relationship. This should help reduce your anxiety.

2) Dating is a way to meet new people. When going out on a first date, just be yourself. Talk to your date as if you were talking to your other friends. If you start to feel nervous, take a deep breath remind yourself that there is nothing to be nervous about. What is the worse that can happen? If the date doesn’t go well, then learn from your mistakes. Try to learn what you did wrong and try to improve on your next date. Also ask your friends for advice or read some books on how to date. There are many helpful books on the right ways of dating.

3) Take it one date at a time. Don’t look too far ahead into the future. Focus on the present. If you start to focus on what will happen next week or next month, you will start to become anxious.

4) If dating a makes you nervous, then try to get to know the person better through different group activities. Get some friends together and invite your person of interest to come along in a group setting. This will help you to get to know the person better.

Once you get into the habit of dating, then your anxiety and fears will go away. Dating is just a way to meet someone. You asked this person for a date because you had an interest in that person. Use that motivation to decrease your fears and anxieties.

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Hi There! I was born in Utrecht, Netherlands in 1980. My interest in helping people who suffer from the many faces of health anxiety started after ending a 6 year battle with my own anxiety disorder naturally. An experienced CBT and NLP practitioner, I have worked with countless amounts of people from around the world to stop their health anxiety condition naturally. My vision is to condition you until until your outer world, meets the hidden needs of your inner world. So stick around and I look forward to getting to know you a little better. Dennis

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  1. December 23, 2013 @ 5:44 pm bipolarbarbieq

    Love this.


  2. December 25, 2013 @ 1:02 am Katie

    Wonderful, succinct and wise, post! Thanks for this!


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